SIX THINGS TO KNOW WHEN YOU THINK YOU’RE HOT… OR NOT
#Review
When the good people at Hot or Not asked me to take a look at their app, I was intrigued. I’ve been around long enough to remember the days when the Hot or Not website first launched. Oh, the uproar it caused among civilized citizens (among whom I did not belong). I was married at the time and really couldn’t be bothered, but meh… I thought it was a funny idea, even if Bill O’Reilly thought otherwise.
My review of the app itself is below (for you impatient types). I offer some hearty, useful advice for the people who think they’re “hot” but obviously dozed off during “SELFIES 101…”
…but first I think I’ll pontificate:
It is now 2014, and these people decided it was time to up their game. I mean… it’s now an interactive app for IOS* and Android* for goddsakes.
Because I am currently miffed at Apple and refuse to upgrade to IOS 7 on my iPhone, I couldn’t use the app there (first issue). Good thing Nuggie got an Android tablet for Christmas.
In a matter of moments I was signed into Facebook, had the app on the device and logged into the Hot or Not world.
I suppose I should be up to snuff on these dating apps via osmosis. I have a few friends who play around on Tinder, OK Cupid, Match.com etc… But you guys, this has exploded in the five years since Nuggie and I started chasing each other around the living room!
To channel my inner senior citizen here, back in my day, we actually had to be intelligent writers (okay, maybe not) who could build a stellar online dating profile to go anywhere in the Match.com or J-Date communities. We searched the archives of our computers for photos that made us look AWESOME and we perused and poked or prodded others who looked appealing. My girls and I use to join the sites as “free” members. That meant you couldn’t contact anyone. The incessant poking or grinning (or whatever) could continue ad nauseum, but no actual email contact was allowed without a paid membership. We waited until someone who seemed worthy of the twenty bucks made contact, and then we paid our fee for some dating what-what. That’s just how it worked.
Not anymore.
It’s a whole new ball game now, boys and girls.
Now, you get a FREE APP, you log in, you give the app permission to a) post whatever the hell it wants to your Facebook profile, b) to spend your money, c) read your private diary and d) to claim your first born; Then, voila! You’re up and running! [joking about the money and diary of course]
Here are those hearty and useful tips and things to note as promised, and herein lies my review (my rating is further below):
1. If you have any “photos of you” on Facebook that are not, in fact you, do not use Facebook to login to Hot or Not! Otherwise one of your profile photos that will come up on Hot or Not may be your dearly departed mother. Even though she’s a hottie, and may garner you more votes, just don’t.
2. This useful tip is for the app makers. Below is the menu for the app. Ignore the icons along the top (those are icons showing what’s open on the tablet itself). The main thing that’s missing from below is an APP SETTINGS or APP ABOUT section. If I’m going to use an app, I want to know where it’s going to share the information I post or respond to. I also want options to turn some of that shit OFF. I want to know what happens when I “heart” or click when I think someone is “hot.” Does it send them a message? Does it just add to their “score?” These are important things to know. But let’s dissect what the menu DOES
a) LISA JEY – if clicked takes you to the images of you that others will see (as in above image). You can go to deeper levels to see and edit your language and about settings.
b) HOT OR NOT – this is where you peruse peeps and click the HOT OR NOT option based on the various pics that show up for them.
c) CONNECTIONS – I’m not sure how this works, but if you click on this as a newbie, it says “The more you play Hot or Not, the more connections you’ll have!” I’ve been playing all morning, and I don’t have any yet. PFFF…
d) SCORE – my Score page says my score is not ready yet. It says if I rate other people, I will get rated back. DOES THAT MEAN EVERY GUY I RATE AS “NOT” CAN RATE ME BACK? If that is the case, guess what? NO INTELLIGENT HUMAN WILL USE THIS APP WITH A REAL IDENTITY. Note – I said intelligent.
3) While perusing profiles to either “heart” or to X out of my world for eternity, I stumbled upon a couple of chicks in the mix. While I appreciate the beauty of women, I was not sure how to react to these photos. Do the Hot or Not gods want me to be friends with girls, so they’re showing me some to rate? What happens if I X them out? More importantly, what happens if I “heart” them? Will they think I’m a lesbo? These are REAL questions by REAL people. Me.
In an effort to be forthright since I am not a lesbian, I clicked “X.” Didn’t want to send the girls the wrong message (the fact I’m doing a review and not really looking to meet anyone on this app, notwithstanding).
4) I found a very large percentage of the guys on the app to be YOUNG… like 18-20ish. I suppose it’s to be expected, but I couldn’t go there. I have friends who have and would, but NOT ME. I like a MAN with some good EXPERIENCE under his belt (no pun intended).
5) If you post a photo that has only a portion of your head showing wayyyyy over in the corner of the photo, with some contraption you think we’ll be impressed by — “X.”
6) Guys, if you have a slew of photos on the app, MAKE SURE THE PHOTOS RESEMBLE WHO YOU ARE NOW. Don’t show me one from your days as a rocker twenty years ago, and one of you in the military in your golden days. People (read: GIRLS) want to see what you look like NOW, not a timeline of your life in photos! I realize because of facebook, my photos displayed do not represent me, but you can delete any photos and upload new ones.
Represent who you really are, because if there is any suspicion to the contrary… it’s an X
Three of these things belong together…. but one (or two) of these things just doesn’t belong… Which of these ARE you?
MY CONSENSUS & RATING:
Overall, the app works great. It’s not slow or sluggish, and it’s pretty responsive. I believe it would be a much cooler app and more widely appealing if they added some features (suggested above). In the end, I’ll take my cues from a phrase in app itself “The more you play Hot or Not, the more connections you’ll have.” If you view this as a way to frivolously play the “game” of love, and not a serious way to find your life-partner or to define your worth or clout in the dating arena, I think you’ll enjoy it. It’s a fun and different way to connect with some other potentially fun and different people (in some cases that’s the understatement of the year).
RATING:
As a fun diversion or game not to be taken too seriously:
In terms of meeting your lifelong partner?
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* IOS refers to the operating system of iPhones and iPads for you non-geeks, and Android is the system on the Samsung Galaxy or any other number of non-Apple smart phones/tablets.
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Ms. Cheevious is the alter-ego of Lisa Jey Davis (former publicist, and television talent manager, current award-winning writer & author, & health and fitness pro). Though Ms. Cheevious has become known for humor via the blog and social media, offering a lighter and brighter look at life… the blog was originally a precursor to Lisa Jey's long overdue book "Ms. Cheevious in Hollywood" which offers a fabulous, funny peek into what really goes on behind the scenes in Hollywood… a Hollywood with Lisa Jey and her funny “serendipities” in it. Think Lucille Ball meets Chelsea Handler meets the girl next door (with a little chocolate and vodka). It depicts with hilarity the innocent mistakes Lisa Jey made when launched back into the big, bad single jungle, as an unassuming single-mother in the City of Angels. It’s also about the beautiful, interesting life she led while her loving, incredible sons kept her grounded and sane amid fantastic events, new friends, parties and field trips. It also shows the turmoil and heartbreak that comes with dating and single mom life. All blog content © 2015 Ms. Cheevious aka Lisa Jey Davis
Wasn’t this idea that how Zuckerburg got started? LOL! The app sounds like fun and love the rating system. Will have to check it out, but only for shits and giggles since I’m off the market.
I think so Marrie! I think MZ’s first little dalliance online was allowing college students to rate each other. Hilarious!
I say you should have some of those Chocolates & Vodkas THEN go on the app! Chances are then EVERYONE’S hot…..
heyyyyy… great idea Tom! LOL!!! Thanks!
Good God, I’m glad I’m old, settled, and satisfied to be bored with life’s diminishing connections. Thanks for explaining IOS and Android, but what do chocolates and vodkas mean? My geek days were when we programmed gymnasium sized computers in machine language; those days were fun too, but dates were really hard to find; times change but do they? We are at Mammoth for a week. Some real snow!!! Town is dying from absent clientele. Whisky Creek (both in Mammoth and Bishop) just plain quit, fired 100 people overnight. Some think they are just the first domino. A second ago I felt a little earthquake, like driving very fast over a very small speed bump. All this place needs is a new season of earthquakes and you could erase it from the map and we can swap our real estate here for chocolates and vodka. Although Hot or Not is light years from my life and time, this is a great review in its own right, and held my interest and got me back to writing to you. You are wonderfully young, but too bad most of the HoN users are 18-24. All the best to you and yours, and a slightly belated 新年好 (Happy Chinese New Year).
Hi Eaeme! Chocolates and Vodka are my Ms. Cheevious rating system. Instead of Thumbs Up – I give things a chocolate and vodka rating with 10 being best. I’ve done it before in video reviews. You’ve gotta keep up! And by the way, I’m glad you’re back to writing in. So sad about Mammoth. I may have to get out their to do a video again… Happy Chinese New Year and Happy American New Year as well. XO